Sleepy Head

One of the beautiful guarantees in life is that at some point each day you will fall asleep. Unless you work in advertising, then maybe every other day, but I digress. The two options for sleep is waking up completely rested or on the wrong side of the bed. That's why, like a modern working woman, I employ a steady army of material goods to help relax three key senses into sleep, practically assuring that I have a good night's rest. These three things are luxurious in their elemental nature, but not particularly over the top. I've narrowed down my favorite things after a experimental period of trial and error. Allow me to share:


J. Crew vintage pajama set, cozy and oversized, preferably worn with a tank top with the cool cotton top behaving more like a robe in the summer months.
Byredo Fleur Fantôme. Completely unique, distinctly floral, absolutely lovely. An addictive and potentially expensive habit that is always worth it in the end.
Mary Green silk satin sleeping mask  because if you're going to leave a glimmer of a candle (safely!) in your bedroom, shutting out the light becomes absolutely necessary.

The 10 Most Important Things In My Closet

My friend asked me what I would consider to be fashion essentials to spend her hard earned money on, and I was immediately excited and intrigued by how difficult it was identifying the sole items in my closet that I would consider indispensable. These are my essentials: the list of items I've identified through trial and error to be the first things i'd buy if I were to start from scratch because they go with any thing I could possible wear.

Before deciding on these though, you have to ask yourself what your personal style is. Mine are based on the fact that;

A) i almost NEVER wear pants. Seriously, EVER. I wear skirts and dresses almost exclusively, but the 2 below are worth noting because they're the only ones I do wear.

B) Despite my love for very high heels and dresses, and the fact that I have a lot of each, it took me forever to identify the only few special OTHER items.

C) My style is classic, feminine with an edge

So! Knowing that my essentials, and ones i'd recommend to anyone like me, are:

1. A great pair of flats. For me, that means j.crew and bloch because they are the most comfortable, long lasting flats ive ever purchased. ever. They are the no-brainer shoes that go with anything. No thinking required, just put them on. They will work with whatever you're wearing.

Bloch Luxury flat $190, J.Crew abbey cap toe flats $128

2. I dont wear jeans, but i do wear trousers. My splurge was this great pair of tapered Theory pants. they are just classic shaped, very flattering to humans with hips. There are less expensive options, but the drape and tailoring from Theory are perfect as is -- a truly RARE thing.

Theory Tapered trousers $365.

3. I wear blazers all the time, probably because it's so easy to dress up a very plain outfit with a really nicely tailored jacket. Mine is tuxedo style and cropped, also from Theory, because their tailoring is insane and make you look super sharp even if you're wearing leggings and a t shirt (which i do wear...often)

Theory Bretta tuxedo jacket $365

4. A jean jacket is next on my list of essentials because one nice jacket will last forever. Literally, you'll die first before wearing this out. I like the non-stretch kind, none of that stretch nonsense. I layer it over everything; over dresses, black trousers, leggings, under my tux jacket. I got mine at J.Crew because it was distressed, lighter jean, and on sale.

$78 Nolita denim jacket, jcrew.com

5. A chain bag. Why? Because it makes everything look dressy. Which is important to me because I don't wear jeans. Just make sure the chain is long enough to be cross body. It looks cooler when you have the option to wear a purse cross body.

Kate Spade Gold Coast Lauralee, $265, kate spade stores

6. I know it may seem silly to include earrings in an essentials list, but details matter. These are my favorite because they reflect light, and they look understated and manage to pull my plain outfits together at the same time.

Kate Spade New York Glass Studs, $55

7. Literally one of the few pants I own. The quality is crazy, because the jeans don't feel like jean material, it's more velvety and flocked, which makes it JET BLACK. These never fade on me, and their stretch never goes away.

Perfect pair, super comfortable and look great with almost anything.

J Brand 12" Low Rise Pencil Straight leg stretch pants, $160

8. Short high quality leather ankle boots. They keep things from getting proper and look great with pants, leggings, tights, skirts, dresses, WHATEVER.

Florentini + Baker Buckle Boots, $565

9. Outwear is important too. I bought a peacoat like this from Burberry in black a couple years ago and I figure I use it 40% of the year. Every year.

Burberry wool cashmere short peacoat, $565

10. Scarves are like comfort blankets to me, because they finish off any look and make more casual. Besides being functional in chilly weather, obviously, the fringe gives an otherwise plain look texture.

Nordstrom Rack cashmere fringe scarf, $50

AND THAT'S IT.

Of course I have other things in my closet, dresses, tops, t shirts, etc. But none of the above are duplicated nor do I own 2 pairs or styles of any of them.